Some children are less affectionate and have difficulty giving and receiving affection, seeming a little cold, as they develop a psychological defense, which can be caused by traumatic or difficult situations, such as being abandoned by their parents or suffering domestic violence, for example..
This psychological defense is a disorder called reactive attachment disorder, which often occurs as a result of child abuse or abuse and is more common in children living in orphanages due to the poor emotional relationship they have with their biological parents.
- Reactive attachment disorder particularly affects infants and children.
- Altering the way bonds and relationships are created.
- And children with this condition are cold.
- Shy.
- Anxious.
- And emotionally distant.
A child with a reactive attachment disorder cannot be completely cured, but with proper follow-up, he can develop normally, establishing trusting relationships throughout his life.
This disorder usually occurs in childhood and can have several causes, including:
This disorder occurs especially when children under the age of 5 experience a separation from the family, or if they are abused, abused or neglected during childhood.
Symptoms that may indicate the presence of this syndrome in children, adolescents, or adults include:
When this disorder occurs in the baby, it is common to drink crying, be moody, avoid parental affection, enjoy being alone or avoid eye contact. One of the first warning signs for parents is when the Child does not distinguish between mother or father and strangers, without any particular affinity, as expected.
Reactive attachment disorder should be treated by a trained or qualified professional, such as a psychiatrist or psychologist, who will help the child connect with his family and society.
In addition, it is very important that the child’s parents or guardians also receive training, counseling or therapy, so that they learn how to handle the child and the situation.
In children living in orphanages, monitoring social workers can also help understand this disorder and strategies to overcome it, making the child able to give and receive affection.